BRADENTON BEACH – Longtime Bradenton Beach and Pines Trailer Park resident Ellen Scott passed away at her home on Friday, March 1 at the age of 85.
Ellen was born in Detroit, Michigan on Dec. 8, 1938, and spent many years living in Houghton Lake before moving to Anna Maria Island in 1994.
Ellen had three children, Bob Slicker, Bernie Slicker and Cindy Slicker, and a multitude of grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nephews, nieces and other family members who loved her dearly. She leaves behind a legacy of love and a lifetime of charitable deeds that included making lotto boards and selling raffle tickets at charity fundraisers and baking homemade pies for bake sales and those she knew and loved.
A celebration of Ellen’s life will be held Saturday, March 16 at the Drift In in Bradenton Beach – a stone’s throw from the mobile home park in which she was believed to be the longest-tenured resident.
Beginning at 1 p.m., the celebration will include a bagpiper, a vocal performance of “Amazing Grace” by Laurie Weremecki, a toast to Ellen at 1:30 p.m. and live music by Dos Macs. Attendees are invited to bring a covered dish to share and some are bringing pies baked in Ellen’s pie pans.
Ellen loved the Tampa Bay Rays, the Tampa Bay Buccaneers and the Tampa Bay Lightning. On Thursday, March 14, folks are invited to gather at Slicker’s Eatery, 12012 Cortez Road W., at 6:30 p.m. for a special toast honoring “The Electric Life of Ellen Scott,” followed by a Lightning watch party at 7 p.m. Family and friends will gather the following day for a private memorial service.
MEMORIES AND LIFE LESSONS
Ellen spent her final days at home being cared for by family members and Hospice. Her son, Bob, was by her side when she died.
“At the end, it was her and I, and I played the song ‘Thank you,’ by Ben Rector as she passed. She made a stance against cancer. She started feeling sick in October and was diagnosed around the first of the year. Once we found out, we decided to make every day like her birthday.
“On Feb. 19, we went to a Lightning game and the Lightning let her start the game by pulling the Tesla coil. They put her on the big screen a couple times and gave her a puck signed by her favorite player, Andrei Vasilevskiy. After the game, they took us down to the tunnel where the players come out after they shower. We met the players and took pictures with Steven Stamkos, Brandon Hagel and Austin Watson. On Feb. 25, she played her last hand of bar poker at the Drift In, and she insisted on walking there and back,” Bob said.
When asked what he’ll miss most, Bob said, “How she loved. How she took anything bad that happened and just plowed right through it. She never dwelled on the negative.”
As for what he learned from his mom, Bob said, “Fortitude. Being able to forge through anything. My mom’s mom passed away when she was 6 years old. She became a ward of the state and she and her three sisters grew up in separate foster homes. She was a lead sales rep for an insurance company in Michigan and a successful florist too.”
In 1994, Bob encouraged Ellen to move to Florida. She lived in Anna Maria for two years and then spent two years living with an aunt in Bradenton Beach before moving into the Pines Trailer Park 26 years ago.
“My mom had 17 pie pans at her house. We passed them out to people in the park and they’ll be bringing pies Saturday,” Bob said. “When the hearse came and got my mother everybody came out and lined the streets. Two nights later, they did a toast on her porch. It’s such a wonderful neighborhood.”
Regarding Ellen’s charitable efforts at the Drift In and elsewhere, Bob said, “Even if you didn’t know my mom, you probably bought a raffle ticket from her.”
In closing, Bob said, “We were fortunate that we spent a lot of time together at the end. All her grandkids made it down to see her and attend an event with her before she passed. I’m blessed to have had a relationship with my mother that few ever get to have. She left our family a tremendous legacy.”
Ellen’s son, Bernie Slicker, said, “My mom lived the fullest life anybody could wish for. She loved the people in the Pines, the Drift In and the AMI Moose Lodge. She always dressed for the occasion. She wore green on St. Patty’s Day, white and red on Christmas and Easter colors for Easter.”
When asked what he’ll miss most, Bernie jokingly said, “Her pies. She made apple, blueberry, peach, cherry, and my favorite, lemon meringue.”
“There’s no pie like Grandma’s apple pie,” Bernie’s son, Mike, said.
“She taught me to live life every day and to be happy to be alive,” Bernie said.
“And never let the little things keep you down,” Mike added. “She chose her paradise and she lived until she died in her paradise.”
Ellen’s daughter, Cindy Slicker, lives in Tennessee but visits often. Speaking by phone while cleaning out her mom’s mobile home, Cindy said, “She’s still teaching me about life as I’m going through her stuff. She was selfless. She was an exceptional mom, grandmother and great-grandmother. She’s got four beautiful granddaughters from me and she taught me how to be a good mother. She was very encouraging and an exceptionally unique woman. She had good energy, was a go-getter and she’d get it done. Mom had three sisters and she’s the last to go. Her last statement to me was, ‘My sisters are waiting for me, I gotta get up there.’ ”
Ellen’s granddaughter, Molly Parry (Bob’s daughter), said, “She was small in stature but she unapologetically took up space. She was feisty, honest and fiercely loyal. Her life was never easy but she always persevered. She was not to be underestimated and she was down for anything. She loved sports and never left a game early, no matter how badly her team was losing. She never missed a single one of my many events and her pride was unconditional.”
Ellen’s grandson, Brian Slicker (Bernie’s son), said, “I’m going to miss everything about her. She went to every one of my sons’ baseball games. She’d stay from 4:30 in the afternoon until 9 o’clock and she always brought goodies for all the kids.
“We’d watch Lightning games together as a family at Slicker’s Eatery and go to games when we could. We went to the Lightning game before she started her downward spiral. She had the opportunity to do the Tesla coil and she brought our sons, Rowan and Corbin, up there with her. It was one of the coolest things ever. She was all about the grandkids and great-grandkids. She never missed anybody’s anything.” Brian said.
“She was one of the most charitable people I’ve ever known. If there was a fundraiser, she’d jump in to help. She did so much for the (Anna Maria Island) Privateers that they made her an honorary Privateer last year. In the trailer park, she helped organize events and create a sense of community there.
Regarding the pies, Brian said, “I’ve never seen a person with so many pie trays. She probably had 20 glass Pyrex pie dishes in her cabinet. I took two of them and I’m going to make a couple pies for the celebration.
“She was one of the most fun people ever. When I was a kid, living in Michigan, they used to have the Tip-Up Town festival on the ice in Houghton Lake. She dressed up and they called her ‘Laser Beam Ellen.’ You never knew anything was wrong with my grandma. She always saw the light and the positive side of life and she made other people happy. She was an icon. She had a great life,” Brian said.
ADDITIONAL THOUGHTS
Drift In manager Doreen Flynn said, “Ellen was my go-to lady. She and Dort Davis helped get the champagne ready on New Year’s Eve. Ellen made all the lotto boards for our Privateers’ fundraisers and she helped The Renegades assist local families at Christmas. She was always the first to volunteer. She was such a big part of the Drift In, and my own life, and I’ll miss her dearly.”
Privateer John ‘Lil’ John Arr’ Rutherford said, “Ellen was tremendously helpful during the Privateers’ fundraisers and in recognition of her support we made her an honorary Privateer in 2023. She will be missed.”
Drift In patron and seasonal Pines Park resident ‘Mark the Park’ said, “Ellen was a lovely lady. She made us apple pies and blueberry pies. Last night, I was walking home and I did what I’ve done for the last 10 years: I said ‘Goodnight Ellen, I love you,’ as I walked by her trailer. I knew she wasn’t there, but I didn’t know her daughter was there. Cindy approached me this morning and thanked me.”
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